Youth is Giving Up On Marriages and 9-to-5 Jobs for the Same Reason
The underlying mindset shift has common roots
“I still remember how I looked forward to each day when it all started. The initial phase was so good,” my friend Andy recalled as we sat at a cafe catching up after a long time.
He had recently finished ten years of marriage with his wife — a whole decade of togetherness.
“I’d get out of bed looking forward to another great day. It was everything I had wanted and worked so hard to finally get,” he continued to reminisce.
Well, I did remember he had tried to impress Anita, his wife, throughout the four years of college and had only managed to get a date with her in the final year.
The marriage took another three years of dating, and convincing.
“But, lately, none of it excites me anymore. Every day is a bit of a struggle and I can hardly drag myself through each day. The passion is all gone. I don’t know if it’s been too long or something has changed. Plus, there are so many options out there, maybe those are a better fit for me. I have to try.”
I was worried now as the thought of seeing my two best friends from college part ways wasn’t a pleasant one.
