Very valid points Revere and hence this is jat part of the solution.. the actual game changer will be when we have just as many stay at home dads as there are moms so there is absolutely no gender defined role “normals” .. something I have written abt before : https://themaverickfiles.medium.com/stay-at-home-dads-are-the-real-solution-to-gender-equality-2896cd065c43