such a great piece and a bold opinion. So true — I think we sometimes choose and say things because we think those are the right things. The reality is “fay shaming” is wrong for the fact that judging anyone for appearances or shallow things is wrong, but als overcorrection in terms of celebrating obesity isnt the answer. Celebrating your choices is great at individual and specific cases but overcorrection of things is wrong — the same often happens when feminism turns into man-hating! thank you for a beautiful piece!