One gender blaming the other is such an age old thing and perhaps till all years to come!

We forget there is at largely either men or women and so blaming one gender gives you a nearly 50% chance of being correct.

Generalizations are a fool’s game.

Meanwhile, personally so happy for u having found the right one the third time and knowing u during our old editing times - you are a good man, and am sure the bitterness bit in here comes for good reason / personal experience.