Natasha kudos for standing up for your choices. Absolute crap that you were ever made to feel bad about them. The very fundamental of equality (of which feminism is a subset) is that women should be FREE TO CHOOSE what they want from their life and if it is being a homemaker then so be it. Being a homemaker beats most jobs hands down in the level of difficulty and responsibility.

I have written a piece on women equality about a month ago and it addresses some of this bigotry of pseudo-feminism.