just being a mother doesnt make a person nurturing or caring, at all. In fact I have always felt a large portion of people arent fully mentally and emotionally capable of handling and raising a child and that unfortunately isnt something they consider before having one.

I wish people were able to do an honest assessment of their own mental health, priorities and a whols host of other things before even thinking of being a parent.

Choosing to not be a parent is farrr wiser than being an irresponsible one - and I say this as a father of two.