If that is the only kind of women u have had a chance to meet, keep looking as there is a whole other lot that doesn’t need all of that.
Having ambition and being an a**hole about it are two different things.

My wife is super successful in her profession, married me when neither of us were where we are today.

Now I am a stay at home dad and she continues to soar in her career and has no issues with my choices - loves me just as much.

Good luck hoping you can find someone who love you for you and not ur superficial credentials (ambition isnt necessarily superficial if accompanied with humility and respect).