Hey Bonnie, that was a great article u wrote. Any armchair critic will never realize baring ur most personal stories to the public is the hardest for the writer and most enjoyable form of writing for the reader. As far as the commenter, i am not nice enough to keep him anonymous, but seriously what the heck were u expecting from a guy with a screenname formed out of a combo of a city/beach most famous for a Nascar 500 race, and a fruit that keeps the doctor away. Duh!